Alan, It appears to me that you have been affected some how in...

Alan, It appears to me that you have been affected some how in you life by gambling.
I also have.I spent many years trying to help my sister deal with a gambling addiction,
allas i failed she committed suicide !.I spent some time beating myself up over my failure
to help her.But in the end as with an alcoholic the individual must deal with it.So one does not
start burning down breweries or gaming houses to solve the problem
Cheers Zubric