Err, dont know I would left someone die from illness or poverty...

Err, dont know I would left someone die from illness or poverty than help them Beef. That's a bit hard core even for me. Hard to tell the line you are taking sometimes if you are taking the pi$$ or being for real at times. Anyway mate you made it through the day and if you cant trust you wife of all people then what hope does the human race and our offspring have ???

I trust mine, its her family who think your windfall should partly be theirs by default like it just fell into our lap instead of costing us decades of work, going without to invest and a bit faith and blind luck. Its our time to have some fun in the sun and enjoy it and if we want to share it its because we want to, not because people try to make us feel guilty that we are stingy if we dont comply with veiled requests for big ticket items.  Good luck mate, love your wacky and serious posts alike.