I met this guy once, his name was Hamish. Absolute gentlemen. We...

I met this guy once, his name was Hamish. Absolute gentlemen. We had some nice beer and just enjoyed the conversation.

Hamish is a nice name as is Douglas even if it has an extra S.

But if plenty of people look at you in a pub and don't want to drink with you and Hamish says, y'know guys, that guy is on a different planet and might have hit his head.

Do we blame Hamish or the guy that Hamish considers might have a problem?