naa,, not always bro... my wife is in her mid 40's... works out, looks like the lady at the front, have been with her for 20++ years... I think it is all about life choices and taking care of yourself... me however have gained weight and love my drink tooo much... lucky for me i was blessed to have a donkey doodle... so when the guys come sniffing around my lady i show em my assets and then sooon walk away...