here have a quick read of these I think you will find them helpful, it does appear you have also changed your sentiment it appears you also need to get past that point to engage in sensible debate, have a great day
https://hotcopper.com.au/posts/22808051/single
https://hotcopper.com.au/posts/22807580/single
https://hotcopper.com.au/posts/23387460/single,
https://hotcopper.com.au/posts/25394679/single